Lent

Devin missed school on Ash Wednesday because he was sick. When I explained to him that Ash Wednesday is the beginning of Lent, he asked me if it was the time that all the candy was taken away (so clearly they have been talking about giving up things for Lent at school). I told Devin that people chose to give things up for Lent because Jesus made such a big sacrifice for us, and we all take a turn sacrificing something for him for the forty days until Easter.
Devin has decided to give up treats for Lent. In Devin's mind, treats include pretty much anything sweet except fruit. So that means no candy, no cookies, no cupcakes, no ice cream, etc... until Easter morning. I wasn't sure if he understood the impact that this would have on his world, so I asked him a couple times if this was what he really wanted to do, and he was certain. Then I reminded him (again!) that once he choose something to give up he has to follow through all the way until Easter. We compromised a bit, and decided that he would give up all treats except for birthday treats, since we have a couple birthdays to celebrate between now and Easter. As a sign of solidarity, I told Devin that I would give up treats also. Then he talked Alex into doing it too, although I know Alex does not understand at all, and expect that there will be a fall from grace on his part. =)
Devin first realized the impact of his decision when the pharmacist at Target offered him a lollipop while filling his prescription, and I reminded him that he gave up treats. The lollipop conversation was repeated at the bank yesterday and at the hair salon today. After school today Devin told me that he didn't have his snack at school because he had gummies from the estimation jar (and I heard mention of rice crispy treats from the student star of the week). I reminded him what he decided to give up for Lent, and I could tell he was starting to think that this sacrifice thing was a bum deal. I feel his pain (since my chocolate cravings are getting out of hand), but I think this will be a good learning experience for him.
What I am surprised at is how often 'treats' are offered to little kids. I never really thought about it before, but in the span of just three days, Devin was offered three lollipops from businesses, candy and a baked good at school and a cookie as part of his 'kids plate' dinner (we ate out tonight). No wonder we have a childhood obesity problem in the United States. Even parents like Andy and I who limit the fast food, deny the soda and treat dessert as an occasional thing still can't manage all the junk food available. Unbelievable!
I think it will be a long forty days for Devin, but I am sure that he can do it!!